Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Class Syory 64 Stealing from Mr Waddell


·       (vi) Class Story 064 -- Stealing from Mr. Waddell 1953


My mother was in tears, crying, "My son is going to jail!"  The policeman in our front room had just informed my parents that the rare stamp dealer over on Pine Avenue, Mr. Waddell was pressing charges of theft against me for stealing a dozen rare stamps.  There was no denying it for I was guilty.  The stamps were in my album and it was immediately brought out to put into the hands of the policeman.  "You will have to appear before a judge to answer for these charges" said the cop.

One of my talents is the same as one of my failings, the obsessive wish to focus in and excel at some selected thing.  In this case I had taken off in a big way for stamp collecting. I wanted to compete with my friend Bruce Rancadore and in some way be better than him.  His prize collection was of British stamps.  It was complete and spanned two of those large stamp albums.

I had started collecting stamps when my father would bring home to me little envelopes of assorted stamps from around the world.  These were the grab bag type of assortments that you could pick up for a dime or a quarter.  This was my entrĂ©e to geography and I loved reading up about these places; Swaziland, Manchuko, and Danzig.  At some point in California, I graduated to a more proper stamp album.  Not the loose leaf variety that Bruce had. This one was fairly complete at maybe 250 pages.

This coincided with my starting to visit with Mr. Waddell to begin collecting American corner plates, the four stamps in the corner of a sheet that still have the margin with a serial number on it.  Mr. Waddell had recommended this and bragged about that he had been doing this for 25 years and the older sheets he still had were worth hundreds of dollars each.

I went to him on Saturday mornings for about a year, never able to spend more than about ten dollars.  On one occasion, the last, as it turns out, he was taken away to the telephone, or at least I thought he was taken away.  I lusted after some fairly rare stamps that would complete some sets or series for me.  When he was out of the room I slipped these into my pocket.  As it turns out, he was watching me while talking on the phone.

I'm not sure I went up before a judge, I think it was just the desk sergeant at the police station, but in the event they scared the bejeebers out of me.  I had returned the stamps but there were some sorts of other penalties involved that I can't remember.

It didn't stop me from stamp collecting in the long run, nor did it stop me from shop-lifting.

Class Story 124 Best Friend Dies


·       (v) Class Story 124 My Best Friend Dies 1949


By the time I got deeply into the fifth grade, I was good friends with two fellows, Skip Smith, on the right in the picture (bottom left of this page), and Tremaine Adrian.  One of our common interests was mathematics.  However, the most important one was our youthful and beautiful mathematics teacher, Mrs. Pat Bergna.  We all three were madly in love with her.  She had announced her engagement to be married before classes ended that year, 1949.  I don't remember her maiden name.
Undaunted, we volunteered to mow her lawn all summer in exchange for math lessons.  I'm sure she realized that we all had this crush on her.  We dutifully arrived at her little house every Saturday morning on our bicycles and spent a few hours trimming the yard so that it looked like it had been to the barbershop.  She kept her part of the bargain and when we were done, she would serve us lunch and give us an algebra lesson.  Life moved on in the sixth grade and we did Boy Scouts rather than Mrs. Bergna that year. 

That was the year when, first time in my life, I thought about myself as a unique individual who would live and die.  I had these thoughts while walking home from an evening Boy Scout Troop meeting at the school.  These days you wouldn't let an eleven-year-old kid walk the streets in the dark.  In my English class, for a book review, I choose "Of Time and the River" by Thomas Wolfe.  Not the current T. Wolfe author.  The one who wrote my book died in 1938.  My teacher was astounded and unbelieving, since it was almost 900 pages and weighty writing like Faulkner's stories about the South.  But I was able to answer all the teacher’s questions, so I got credit.

In the summer, between sixth and seventh grades, the word came to my mother, who was a good friend of Tremaine's mother that he had been diagnosed with Polio and was in an Iron Lung.  I was kept away from all that early trauma.  The mothers must have shared their agony.  I know my mother feared that we might get Polio, stemming back to our early days in Detroit.  I started to visit Tremaine once a week after school.  I was not forced, nor even encouraged to do this.  I had to take a bus over to what is now the Valley Medical Center on Bascom and Moorpark and back again.  It took a whole afternoon.  I didn't know, or comprehend, at the time what the prognosis was. 

My visits dwindled to once every two weeks during the eighth grade and once a month during the ninth grade, by then I'd figured out that there was no hope and it would be over soon.  Each year I would twist the arms of various singing groups at Christmas time to come with me to the hospital.  I love to sing Christmas Carols, although I have no real voice for it.  But that was something I could do and it elated everybody for a while.  It's strange how some of these sorts of things stick with us.  I still join in with Christmas groups that will have me, shouting out, "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen."  A favorite time of life was when my good friend Donna Roberts used to have annual Christmas parties in Bernal Heights.  She would hire a piano player and drag out the sheet music for all to join in and sing carols.  I joined a hospital choir group when I returned to Tucson for graduate studies.

Tremaine died during the spring term of the ninth grade.  We had slowly lost an oral connection for speaking about current events.  This was understandable with all that goes on in a young life between twelve and fifteen.  We still talked about feelings and wishes.  His wish was to get out of that lung.  We spoke of what we wished for the future, for me it was cars, for him, girls.  I know that at the end, he understood that he wasn't going to live much longer, but into what context can a 15-year-old boy put thoughts of his own demise?  I'm sure there were other deaths around me during the preceding 15 years, but this was the first that affected me so personally.  I still think of him every Christmas.

Class Story 092 Grocery Stores Willow Glen 1948-58


 

The mom and pop "Busy Bee" on Lincoln and Byerley Avenues


This was a tiny little place I visited 2 or 3 times a week that first summer of 1948 while we lived on Johnathan Avenue.  It also became a half-way stopping off point on my way home from school during my first year at Willow Glen Elementary, 5th grade, 1948-49. 

My parents never shopped here except maybe just to take a walk and buy some popsicles.  However, my Dad became impressed when my mother sent him out that 1st Thanksgiving (1948) to get some things to put in her dinner.  Every place was closed up tight.  My sister and I pleaded, "Just knock on the door and the Busy Bee people will answer," and they did.  We would walk the six short blocks to this place to get candy and ice cream.  If we had the money, we would put a penny in the gum ball machine, gambling that we would get the spotted ball.  There was one inside the round globe somewhere and if we got it, then we could trade it in for a 5¢ candy bar.  I'm sure that this is the fore-runner of my sister's continued addiction to gambling at the penny slots in South Shore.

The store was tiny, just the downstairs of a house converted for use as a store.  They still lived upstairs.  It was mostly dry goods, one cooler cabinet, and a small selection of fruit and vegetables, but not as much as the fruit & vegetable trucks that would come around to every street back in those days.  The building is still there but it is a real estate office these days.

They did have a beer and wine license and I recall that I started going there again years after we'd moved away from Johnathan Avenue because they could be tricked into selling beer to minors.

A proper grocery store on Lincoln Avenue and Malone Road


Only I was allowed to walk down Malone, not my sister.  There was a lot on new construction on the south side of the street.  The land there was either freshly bull-dozed or still in orchards.  Malone was also a main thoroughfare and my mother worried that Patty would be hit by a car if she was too close to the road or bull-dozed if she were too far from the road.

But this is where she did her local shopping.  My mother didn't drive, so this store was her primary source of fresh food; meats, dairy, and vegetables.  This place had a butcher's counter and a whole side of the store in fruits and vegetables.  You could get magazines and even a few comic books.

It wasn't much further away from our Fairview house, so she continued to go there every now and then, but by 1949, my parents had discovered economy-sized quantity buying.

The fruit & vegetable trucks


As I was growing up, there was a tradition of door-to-door peddlers of everything one could want or need: the daily milk man of course, everyone has heard about the days when you got glass bottles with a foil or cardboard cap.  When there was snow, the cream at the top would push out and we got an ice cream cone of sorts.  The iron-monger was just a scrap collector but it was a great way to get rid of things that no longer worked.  To an 11 year old boy, this man always had a fabulous collection of memorabilia.  The knife sharpener was indispensable because he knew his trade.  He could sharpen scissors, the lawn-mower blades, and drill bits as well as knives.  My mother always had a box set out in the garage for when he next came.  The ice cream truck continues to this day, but I no longer see twenty kids of all ages gathered around to get popsicles and maybe a pint for mom for dinner.  In Detroit, we were very poor and made our own ice cream in the basement.  Here in San Jose, I felt affluent because I could spend 10¢ on a drumstick.  The Fuller Brush man and the Avon lady were generic terms covering a wide variety of sales.  Clothing, appliances, cosmetics, nostrums, even photographers and all sorts of "handy" gadgets, still parodied in Dagwood Bumstead cartoons.  And of course there were us kids ourselves, who went door-to-door collecting old newspapers or scrap metals, or selling magazine subscriptions for fund raising drives at school.  The transition to the fifties saw the loss of some wonderful private institutions, one of which was the produce guy who came to our Fairview cul-de-sac every Tuesday and Friday afternoon.  When I was home, I would love to go out to that truck just to see all the variety of fresh produce that was available.  My mother would be too busy sometimes and just send me out with a list or if it was short, just tell me: 2 cantaloupes, 4 apples, a head of lettuce, and a bunch of carrots.

Besides buying produce, this was a time to gossip with the neighbors.  Every family on our 9 house, key-hole shaped street would send out a representative, at least to get a head of lettuce.  "Helen and Debbie are going to miss Camp Fire Girls this afternoon.  Tell your sister and your mother."  The produce man would add in the gossip of the surrounding neighborhood.  "The Gagliardi's over on Roycott Way have sold another 500 acres of orchard land to the developers.  Can you believe it, $400 an acre!"  "Down at the end of Cherry, the Ferrante's oldest daughter had her wedding last week."

It was a cash and carry business and thus one that probably didn't pay a lot of taxes, if any, no sales tax in those days.  The merchants were what we would today call independent contractors.  Farmer's markets to some extent satisfy the need for fresh, wholesome produce, especially with their home-delivery options.  But we'll never be able to return to the almost pioneering aspect where, if a man could own a truck, he could support a family from the buying and selling of produce.  Regulations, taxes, health inspections are all too prohibitive these days.  Somehow we lived through it without all those government things.

The Willow Glen Creamery on Lincoln


I'm not sure that people even know what a creamery is anymore.  I guess that reflects my age.  I ran across this picture in a 1977 book, "Old Willow Glen."  It stated that this had been, "the Village Pizza since the early 1950's.  Prior to that it was the Willow Glen Creamery … .."  The only time I remember going in there was on the way back from a week-end of back-breaking spading and shoveling out at a one-acre plot of Monsanto Chemical's, north of town.  I think it was Steve Brown's dad that got us four seventh graders (1951) the job, for $40 bucks each, for the week-end ($2.50 an hour).  The fourth dad picked us up on the Sunday afternoon.  He worked for Carnation Milk, who supplied this creamery and right now I can't remember the name of the creamery, Towner's or Tuttle's maybe.  We stopped in there on the way home and he drew in some favors.  We all got what ever we wanted.  I had a vanilla milkshake.  Actually, now that I have been a father many times over, he just paid for it under the table and let us think that he was calling in a favor.

Driving to East Santa Clara and 15th Streets


Supermarkets were a new post-war thing back in 1948 and our family made a regular Saturday ritual out of visiting one of the firsts in San Jose although it was across town.  The selections were paltry by today's standards but you could get everything you needed all in one place rather than having to go to a butcher's, a baker's, a dry goods store, and a produce outlet.  Furthermore, the prices were cheaper and you could buy economy-sized packages of things.

I think that my sister and I stayed in the car most of the time.  We were probably too much to handle going up and down the aisles.  As the years passed by, Bettencourt's became our regular place because it was a shorter drive; eventually The Trio Market opened up in Willow Glen and we could walk.

The "country" chicken ranch out in Sunnyvale


As everyone, us included, committed more and more to supermarket shopping, we began to miss that taste of freshness which was missing from packaged and frozen foods.  And although no one likes to discuss it, there were chemicals and additives tossed in with those things.  Also to get products to market in a supermarket operation, things had to be picked green and slaughtered early.

My parents found a little country farm/ranch out on the Sunnyvale-Saratoga Road at Homestead, almost into Sunnyvale.  The chickens were out roaming all over the yard as we drove in.  The farmer and his wife had a standing joke for the kids who visited, "You just go catch the ones you want and we'll butcher them for you."  My mother was there to get three plucked fresh chickens and a flat of fresh eggs.  We grew up on a high cholesterol breakfast: eggs, bacon, toast with butter and whole milk.  It was an airing out for us kids as well as a shopping stop.  My sister and I loved running all over the place.

The frozen meat lockers


Another trick for getting meat a bit cheaper and being able to select exactly what you wanted was the concept of buying half a steer, usually with a friend taking the other half, and having the Sunday butchers cut it up and package it for you.  In those days, butcher shops were legally closed on Sundays and so to make a little extra on the side, some butchers would leave their union card at home and work the day for one of these wholesale packing and storage companies.  The frozen meat lockers over on Coleman Avenue off West Julian Street just past the RR underpass was where we had a locker.  This is while we were still in the Fairview house.  When we moved to Glen Dell, we bought a freezer of our own.

My Dad and I would drive over there to Coleman every two weeks to load up on steaks and chops, bacon and stew meat.  I used this place myself in later years when Gisela and I set up housekeeping in San Jose.  One of the offices on the second floor at Coleman was the weekly meeting place of my Christian Science Youth group, presumably donated by the owners for our use.

The mom and pop on Minnesota at Cherry


In my early teen years, at Glen Dell, as a family we were still hooked on neighborhood Mom and Pop grocery stores.  Now we were only one block away, so Petie could run over for a tomato or whatever.  My mother still used her wire mesh tote basket, sort of like a stewardess's bag on wheels.  That was invaluable for six block trips with three bags of groceries, but we didn't do many of those anymore.  Still it came in handy for the multi-functional shopping trips.  We went down Minnesota to the Library, then the drug store at the corner of Lincoln, cutting across Hutton's filling station.  A stop at the bakery for a treat and a pie or a dozen cookies and another brief moment at The Pronto Pup for a comic book, then maybe a stop at Bergman's department store for notions, then back up by way of Brace Avenue just for the variety.

The Mom & Pop store on Minnesota tried to keep up with the times: more organized aisles, multiple checkout counters, competitive pricing, but nothing was going to beat the variety and cost of a Safeway.

Lucca's on Lincoln across from the Garden Theater


The first one to hit our Lincoln Avenue strip was right across from the Garden theater.  Now we were getting to Safeway size.  They had everything and at cheap prices.  But my parent's were successful by this time and did their main Saturday shopping at The Trio Market on Minnesota and Lincoln.

Rocci's on Lincoln between Coe and Glen Eyrie Avenues


The Trio Market at 1331 Lincoln was known as Rocci's because the owner & manager was Rocci Bengiveno.  His son was a buddy of mine, Dick, at Willow Glen Elementary.  My parents switched to Rocci's, primarily because of the quality of food that he sold.  Also I think because my mother could make the trip there on her own, with her basket.  Later Rocci moved, twice, once to the corner of Minnesota at 1396 Lincoln, then down to where the Glen Food Center was at 1202 Lincoln at the far end of Lincoln.  Then my mother had to go by the back streets: straight down Cherry, across Willow to Glen Eyrie and then right to Lincoln about three blocks down.  Before the move up to Coe, Rocci's had been a competitor with La Villa.  But the rent was high in "downtown" Willow Glen and Rocci's was forced to move out.

These days Rocci's is Spanish-speaking only and has hit bottom on the food quality scale.  This says a lot about the changing texture of Willow Glen.  For a short, but significant stint, I moved back here to Willow Glen, with a family, thirty years later.  The house prices had gone from $25,000 to $500,000, but that surprises no one these days.  Sue and I, at times, were both rich and poor.  When poor, we shopped at "Food-for-Less" and found weevils in our rice.  When rich, I could treat Marisol's friends to my favorite spaghetti & meat balls from La Villa.  People who lived in our neighborhood no longer shopped in our neighborhood.  They shopped in the malls and they worked in the malls.  In the sixties when I was married to Gisela and we were raising Tommy and Patti, we found the malls to be of great convenience.  After breaking the habit, by living in England for ten years, Sue, Marisol and I just tolerated the malls.  These days, the malls sicken me; such a waste of energy and resources.

I'm too much of a businessman to deny the potency of the malls, but I'm also too much of a romantic not to regret the passing of that Victorian age of self-less service.

La Villa Italian on Lincoln


Which brings me to La Villa.  La Villa, to this day,  and some would argue,  even more so in this day, provides a singularly unique Italian pasta experience.

At some point while we were on Glen Dell, we discovered take-out at La Villa.  Spaghetti and meat balls from La Villa became my favorite, and still is.  This was perfect for nights when my parents were going out and my sister and I had to fend for ourselves.

Class Story 51 Awake in the Garden of Eden


 

I woke up one morning in The Garden of Eden.  My mother was there and after fixing me some breakfast, she said, “Go outside and play while I unpack.”  It was hot that day; 10:30 and it was already 80° in San Jose.  Bulldozers had scrapped the earth around our new tract house.  Right out the back door, there was a thirty foot DMZ and then the neglected orchards.  They were doomed to go in the next wave of building our tract.  Right on the edge of the plum orchard and directly behind our house was a broadly sweeping tree with huge leaves that looked exotic, just like I imagined palm fronds.  The tree was laden with dark purple, almost black, pear shaped fruit.

 

We had just arrived in the Valley of Hearts Delight after a cross country, permanent move by my parents to find their fortune in California.  I knew no one out here.  My fellow fourth grade friends in Detroit were in another world, impossibly far away.  Jim, Dick, and I had run in a pack and continually got in trouble together.  I was their leader.  The two neighbor girls, Beverly and Frances, down the street in Detroit had just turned ten and eleven that spring.  They had been teaching me how to play Doctor.  We would do this in the basement.  One of the sisters would stay on lookout while the other one and I would play "full checkup."  We kept looking for whatever it was our parents were scared we would find, but we never did find it. I felt alone without my Detroit friends and no new ones to be found until September, two months away.

 

Back in the house my mother told me, “This is fruit.  A fig and it’s okay to eat if you wash it.”  At the fig tree, I pulled a big fat one off and wiped it on my T-shirt.  It was hot and when I bit in, it exploded in my mouth, almost with effervescence, like it had been fermenting. 

 

Figs from the store are nothing like the ones you pick from the tree on a hot summer day.  Dried, they are too chewy because there's more skin than pulp.  Cold, they are too fleshy and disgusting, like eating a piece of raw animal.  But big and hot and ripe, the fig fills you with rich sugary sweetness.

 

Like any fourth grade boy in those days, I was curious and fearless, and thus I began my summer of wanderings through the orchards of San Jose.  After living all my life in a city, I was immersed in such solitude that I would roam from sun-up to sun-down and rarely see another living soul, except birds.  The joy to me was the fecundity of the land.  Around the ugly scar of our rock and cement-droppings back yard, I found wild tomato plants, sprouted from the seeds of construction workers' lunches.  They blossomed without tending and produced the most beautiful fruit.  The dusty heat of the Santa Clara Valley summer added to the aroma and the taste.

 

The smell of tomato plant when you crinkle a leaf or two still drives me wild with memories.  The taste of those small, hot tomatoes was rich and filling, in with one bite and chewed with two more. 

 

All the fruit around me then was much smaller than the things you get in stores today.  Plums and tomatoes are sold by the pound.  These days they grow them to hold more water and then the growers profit 89¢ a pound from free rain and irrigation water.

 

Beyond the fig tree was the orchard of plums.  The ground below each tree was strewn with rotting plums, but there still was a limitless supply in the trees.  The sweet smell of these wasp-covered rotting plums was delicious.  My mouth watered and I had to learn the hard way, to control my daily intake of ripe plums.  They were tiny and you could pop the whole thing into your mouth. 

 

Just picture all the flavour of one of those giant plums you get today concentrated into a piece of fruit a quarter the size, without irradiation, chemicals or poisons. 

 

Since they fit into the mouth whole, the trick was to bite across the broadest part of the fruit.  They were ovoid in shape like a partly flattened egg with a seam.  You bit on this seam and the plum would split in two.  Then you could extract the pit, still in your mouth and spit it out.  If the plum was properly ripe, the pit would separate easily.

 

I was so in tune with the earth, as the weeks passed by, that periodically as I ran into a large mound of freshly bull-dozed dirt, I stripped and buried myself in it up to my arm pits, just to feel the earth in touch with my body.

 

To balance the sugary aspect of this daily diet of tomatoes, figs and plums, there were walnuts and almonds.  I learned that summer how to harvest a walnut.  The skin was thick and light green if I pulled one off the tree.  The juice in the skin was so strong that it stained my hands and took days to work off.  If the green skin sealed the nut shell, I couldn't get it off; it was bonded to the shell.  I had to wait for the skin to dry out and start to fall off.  Once the shell was on the ground with no skin I couldn't tell how old the walnut was.  So best was to spot a withered or cracked skin that could be easily flicked away.  Then I broke open the shell by placing the walnut between the bases of my two palms, like I was praying.  I kept the seam between the two halves of the walnut shell in contact with my palms.  I interlocked my fingers for more leverage, and then squeezed and the walnut shell split in two.  Too green and the walnut meat was chewy and bitter.  If it was too old, it was like a black peanut.  Just right was tasty and full of protein.  Almonds had a stronger flavour and I could crack them in my mouth.  It was the same routine with the outer shells though; but almonds had fuzzy skins.

 

Class Story 116 Richard School


Class Story 116 Richard School - Grosse Pointe 1945-48


Beverly Allor attended my 10th birthday party
Some of the names I have written down on the back are Dick Douglas, Ray Perry, Dick Clark, Mike O’Neil, Paul Thompson, Bill Egar.

These little vignettes that follow about me at Richard School are best documented by my mother.  Any memories that I may think I have about these events are probably false and just induced from hearing the stories repeated dozens and dozens of times over the years.  So here is what she said about my "troubles" in school:

 

Peter had a bit of trouble in school.  His teacher came to see us one evening (they did that) and said that Peter was eating paper, which was indication that he was disturbed about something.  She asked if he had any brothers and sisters.  We told her about Patty, who never got scolded because she never did anything to warrant it.  The teacher asked us to give Peter nothing but praise and attention for two weeks and to try to cut out criticizing him for anything.  We did that.  And never knew when the two weeks were up as Peter practically changed overnight.

One thing that had got him into trouble was his taking the coupon book which let us buy the family shoes for the next year. He gave them to his little friends and no parent ever returned one to me.  Things were tough!!!  To punish Peter, I sent him to his room for the rest of the day.  And he came down to tell me that Patty had fallen out of his window.  She had gone up to keep him company, sat on the window sill, a loose screen, and out she went.  I ran out and there she was lying on the ground.  We had been given Red Cross instructions not to move the victim in case of injury.  So I ran in and called Dr. Marshall.  "Where is she?"  He said.  "Out on the lawn" "Well, for God's sake, go get her and I'll be right over."

I had to keep her quiet and awake for the rest of the day and evening in case of concussion but she was fine.  She started to school in 1945.  She was eager to go and I can still see her, learning on the door, first in line, waiting for them to let her in.



Actually I pushed her out of that window.  Not in one big push, but slowly inching her out.  And mother didn't write up the bowling ball on the staircase incident, probably because I never was able to start it down the stairs, but I was going to play catch with baby Pat, her on the bottom of a flight of stairs, and me with a bowling ball at the top of the stairs, pushing it down for her to catch.

I remember the incidents with Patty but I can't recall anything about the shoe coupons.  I also remember the incident that got me put on suspension for three days.  That was when my "gang" of boys chased the girls over to the edge of the playground at recess.  It was the dead of winter with snowa foot thick on the ground.  We pulled the pants down on this bunch of girls and got in a lot of trouble.

Class Story 118 Belle Isle Trip


We took a school trip in October in the 4th grade to visit the science museum over on Belle Isle.  I was amazed at the aquarium.  I can only picture it as looking like Steinhart Aquarium used to look in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park.  This experience prompted me to become a pet fish enthusiast thirty years later when I was recuperating from a bout with cancer at Gail Howard's house.  I had twenty plus aquariums bubbling and gurgling to Gail's continued irritation.  The sad ending to my collector's fancy is documented in "The Man Who Loved Tropical Fish." 

I’m sure there were many more science exhibits there but the aquarium is what stands out as a lasting memory, except … …  When we got on the bus to go back to school, the teacher saw that I was chewing gum.  She said, “Peter, spit that gum out and if you want to save it, stick it behind your ear.”  Of course, that is exactly what I did, even though I had longish hair at the time.  I then proceeded to completely forget about it, rough horsing around all the way home with my friends in the bus. 

When I walked in the door at home that night, my mother said, “What’s that on the side of your head?” 

“Oh’” I said “I saved some gum behind my ear.”

“Well,” she says “It’s all over the side of your head now and I’m going to have to cut it all out!”

What a mess; and I screamed bloody murder.  I walked around for weeks with a shaved patch on the back of my head.

Mother took my sister and I to Waterloo, Nebraska in 1944 to visit her parents.  They owned and operated the newspaper there. We went on the train, an over-night trip on a Pullman Sleeper car.  I can remember bits and pieces of this trip.  Some older family member, I remember it as my father's dad, my mother thinks it might have been her dad, told me how to deal with the Porters, about the shoe-shinning if you left them outside you sleeper door.  I was six or seven years old, so I should remember more of this trip.  When I recited to my mother my memories of Waterloo, she says it wasn't so, there was no soda fountain catty-corner from the newspaper.  Then again, her memory of Waterloo was dated by twenty years away from home at this post-war juncture.

We took our first true family excursion when Dickie had justification to go and visit Greenfield Tap & Die in Greenfield, Massachusetts.  We started by driving down to visit Dickies parents in Akron, Ohio.  We visited Akron on several occasions before we left for California.  I remember the tennis courts, a left-over from before the War.  The next leg was driving all the way to Greenfield.  We stayed in a motel and while Dickie did his business, Patty and I played croquet all day at the motel.  We had never played before and really had fun with the game.

Then we drove up to Buffalo, New York, where we boarded a big ship, a steamer.  We were able to drive the car onto the deck for storage.  Thus we took the boat across Lake Erie bound for Detroit.  It was an overnight cruise and I tried to stay up as late as possible because of the beautiful lights on the water; other ships signaling each other with horns and lights from towns along the banks.

The gum-chewing incident reminds me of what a holy terror I was as a kid.  I was a regular pyromaniac for a few years and my parents didn't know what to do about it.  It was early sociopathic behavior, I guess.  I started by setting fires in the neighbor's yards and one time under a car in a neighbor's garage.  They seemed to be always caught in the nick of time and I got into trouble with each occurrence. 

One time on Lewiston, I built a fire in one of the back bathrooms, in the shower stall.  It caught the curtains on fire and this produced a huge amount of smoke.  After this, my father called me onto the back patio porch and brought out a whole carton of matches, maybe 50 packs.  "You're going to light each one and let it burn for a while," he said.

We went through them all, but it didn't cure me.  I only vaguely remember the final cure, which my mother related to me.  They had called over a fire-man, an authority figure.  He took me outside and gave me a talking to for about half an hour.  After that talking to, I never did it again.