We took a school trip in October in the 4th grade
to visit the science museum over on Belle Isle. I was amazed at the aquarium. I can only picture it as looking like
Steinhart Aquarium used to look in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park. This experience prompted me to become a pet
fish enthusiast thirty years later when I was recuperating from a bout with
cancer at Gail Howard's house. I had
twenty plus aquariums bubbling and gurgling to Gail's continued
irritation. The sad ending to my
collector's fancy is documented in "The Man Who Loved Tropical
Fish."
I’m sure there were many more science exhibits there but the
aquarium is what stands out as a lasting memory, except … … When we got on the bus to go back to school,
the teacher saw that I was chewing gum.
She said, “Peter, spit that gum out and if you want to save it, stick it
behind your ear.” Of course, that is
exactly what I did, even though I had longish hair at the time. I then proceeded to completely forget about
it, rough horsing around all the way home with my friends in the bus.
When I walked in the door at home that night, my mother
said, “What’s that on the side of your head?”
“Oh’” I said “I saved some gum behind my ear.”
“Well,” she says “It’s all over the side of your head now
and I’m going to have to cut it all out!”
What a mess; and I screamed bloody murder. I walked around for weeks with a shaved patch
on the back of my head.
Mother took my sister and I to Waterloo, Nebraska in 1944 to
visit her parents. They owned and
operated the newspaper there. We went on the train, an over-night trip on a
Pullman Sleeper car. I can remember bits
and pieces of this trip. Some older
family member, I remember it as my father's dad, my mother thinks it might have
been her dad, told me how to deal with the Porters, about the shoe-shinning if
you left them outside you sleeper door.
I was six or seven years old, so I should remember more of this
trip. When I recited to my mother my
memories of Waterloo, she says it wasn't so, there was no soda fountain
catty-corner from the newspaper. Then
again, her memory of Waterloo was dated by twenty years away from home at this
post-war juncture.
We took our first true family excursion when Dickie had
justification to go and visit Greenfield Tap & Die in Greenfield,
Massachusetts. We started by driving
down to visit Dickies parents in Akron, Ohio.
We visited Akron on several occasions before we left for California. I remember the tennis courts, a left-over
from before the War. The next leg was
driving all the way to Greenfield. We
stayed in a motel and while Dickie did his business, Patty and I played croquet
all day at the motel. We had never
played before and really had fun with the game.
Then we drove up to Buffalo, New York, where we boarded a
big ship, a steamer. We were able to
drive the car onto the deck for storage.
Thus we took the boat across Lake Erie bound for Detroit. It was an overnight cruise and I tried to
stay up as late as possible because of the beautiful lights on the water; other
ships signaling each other with horns and lights from towns along the banks.
The gum-chewing incident reminds me of what a holy terror I
was as a kid. I was a regular pyromaniac
for a few years and my parents didn't know what to do about it. It was early sociopathic behavior, I
guess. I started by setting fires in the
neighbor's yards and one time under a car in a neighbor's garage. They seemed to be always caught in the nick
of time and I got into trouble with each occurrence.
One time on Lewiston, I built a fire in one of the back
bathrooms, in the shower stall. It
caught the curtains on fire and this produced a huge amount of smoke. After this, my father called me onto the back
patio porch and brought out a whole carton of matches, maybe 50 packs. "You're going to light each one and let
it burn for a while," he said.
We went through them all, but it didn't cure me. I only vaguely remember the final cure, which
my mother related to me. They had called
over a fire-man, an authority figure. He
took me outside and gave me a talking to for about half an hour. After that talking to, I never did it again.
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